Resisting Manipulation

So I decided to go to CoDA, Codependents Anonymous. Even after my first meeting I came out feeling so different! My recent ex knew I was going, she lives in the same town as me. So naturally I felt a pressure (from my codependent traits) to try to make it work, for both of us. … Continue reading Resisting Manipulation


Throwing off old patterns

I woke up depressed this morning and couldn't get out of bed! Last night I spent the whole evening at my friends house, he was playing world of warcraft while I sat, chocolate biscuits in hand, "suits" on netflix and pen and paper in hand. Every relationship, every damaging thing ever done to me that … Continue reading Throwing off old patterns