An end to codependency

I’ve decided to stop being codependent. What on earth does that even mean though?

I stop looking for validation in helping others.

I feel mean when my attitude shifts from “I care” to “you’ll be just fine without me”.

I feel like a complete knob if I’m honest, it goes counter to what I would naturally think.

The trigger was realising I’ve opened myself to so much abuse, physical and emotional. False accusations and being made to always feel never good enough and never listened to.

When I have been listened to, information was used to manipulate or control me.

That’s how I felt anyway. And it’s time to put a stop to it all!

Time to get free from the abuse I allow myself to go through and walk into freedom!

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